I was having a beautiful Saturday morning lying in bed, lethargic, nibbling my remaining Oreos from the previous night, watching an old episode of Tinsel when my phone rang, it was my friend, I hesitated a bit because she is the needy type, it's either she wants to borrow some money to buy fuel, host a get together or she needs the phone number of someone or anything, something, she always needs something. But she has a good sides, and that's why we are still friends.
So I took her call. ''Babe, that your police friend, that police lady na, the one who you called that day that idiot bashed my car. Do you still have her number?'' She queried, I tried to find out what was going on because I knew she was temperamental and could do something silly, but she demanded I sent her the number at once, so I did and managed to get her location too.
So immediately I slipped into a pair of sweat pants and top and found my way there. It was her boyfriend's house. When I got there, there were a couple of people standing around, some laughing, others having disgust written all over their faces. I managed to get through, and there she was, standing by her car almost naked, while the other girl sat by his door, her face was swollen and her mouth bleeding. It wasn't time to start asking questions, so I called another friend to come drive us home, while I tried to calm her down at the back seat of the car.
Later that day, the lady she had fought with traced her to my house with some hoodlums she had hired to come beat her up and they almost raised down my house if not for the swift intervention of the police led by my friend. They were all locked up for causing trouble and disturbing the peace of my neighbourhood. They had to pay some good money to be let loose (let's not forget that Bail is Free) and they haven't caused any trouble ever since.
Apparently,
she went to pay her boyfriend a surprise visit and was shocked at the sight of
him with another girl, and the girl had insulted her and she had to in her
words "teach the b**ch a lesson". I asked where the boyfriend was
when the fight took place and she said he wore his shirt and drove off after unsuccessfully
trying to stop the fight.
So I asked
a couple of guys today what they thought about ladies fighting, and some said
it was a sight to behold, one of the guys clearly stated that sometimes he just
brings another girl home when his girlfriend is coming around because he wants
to enjoy some entertainment. It's amazing he said, with boobs jiggling, ass
bouncing, wigs flying, both screaming; two women who absolutely have no idea
that they've just been set up yelling at each other. It's fun mehn he said between
chuckles.
Another guy
said he tries to avoid it, it's usually not good for a guys reputation when
ladies are fighting over him. Although it means he's got his game on the A's,
but when he finally wants to settle down, it becomes a story, tale or gossip
they'll tell my fiancé and that could ruin things for me. But if push comes to
shove, it's Ok to them them fight, after all I'm the man and I know the one I
want; it could as well be some other girl out there and these ones are killing
themselves.
I'm not
gonna give pointers on the subject matter today, I'm just gonna ask questions
and hopefully you'd have personal answers to them.
When you
engage in physical combat because of a man/woman,
1. Who is
at loss?
2. Does the
winner of the fight have "sole custody" of the man/woman?
3. What's
the guarantee that he/she wouldn't cheat some more?
4. Isn't it
better to have a civil conversation than engage in a fist combat?
5. What do
you think happens to your reputation (that is if you care about how you are
perceived)?
6. Does it
prove or confirm your love?
7. Would
he/she love or respect you even more?
8. If he/she
decides to settle for someone outside the both of you, what happens then?
9. What if
that little stunt leads to a loss of life?
10. Are you
willing to go to prison because of anger, rage and jealousy?
Well, I
guess you already have your answer. Never let anger or jealousy rob you of
rational reasoning. In all your dealings, Be Wise!!
Written by: Soba Mac Pepple
Soba Mac Pepple is an Energetic, Electrifying and Outspoken Lady! Wild, Crazy Wild! And very much in Love... with Music. ‘’My Experiences are my Pieces, My Pieces are my Words, My Words are my Thoughts. I am a Writer, Lover and Believer’’
I Live, I Love, I Learn!
Twitter: @therealsoba
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